Gives new meaning to "wanderLUST"

A certain blogger whom I adore has a Life List. Now many of us have Life Lists, as I do (soon to be published), but there is something on her list that has had me running through my mental archives to see where I’m at.

23. Have sex in all 50 states

I sat on the train last night, counting to myself. Then I texted this blogger a simple number. “7”. Then I thought about it again, and when she responded (immediately knowing what that number stood for – cause she’s awesome), I amended, and said “10 – including Washington D.C.”

I ran home and asked Dave, and he only had about 4, he thinks. (The memory isn’t so good with that boy.) So now of course I’m curious. Do you know all the states that you’ve had sex in?? Here are mine, in no particular order:

1. New York (obvs)
2. New Jersey
3. Connecticut
4. Pennsylvania
5. Maryland
6. Florida
7. Tennessee
8. California
9. Massachusetts
10. Washington D.C.

So, I’ve only “done it” in one state on the West Coast, and otherwise only on the East Coast. Interesting. I’ve got the Tri-state area down.

I think I need to add this to my Life List just so I can keep track! Hahaha.


  1. That Kind of Girl says

    Oh man, so curious. I totally have to tally up my list now:

    1) California
    2) Oregon
    3) Washington
    4) Nevada
    5) Arizona
    6) New York
    7) Washington DC
    8) Maryland
    9) Virginia

    …damn, is that it? Can we go ahead and count Canada as a state?

    Definitely my list of countries is much longer than my list of states. But of course trying to check off every country would be truly, truly insane.

    Also, I'm a little bummed that I friggin' live in Massachusetts now and it's not on the list yet (though of course this will be remedied in due time.)

  2. That Kind of Girl says


  3. Oy. OK. Let me count. DC, Virginia, Maryland, North Carolina, Florida, New York, Massachusetts, Colorado, New Mexico, Arizona, Utah, Texas. So that's 12. I think I'm forgetting some, though.

  4. carissajaded says

    Oh gosh I'm lame. I think I only have 3…
    Texas, Georgia, New York, and ok 4- New Mexico.

    But if we were talking TX cities… well then.

  5. Okay this is fun!

    1. California
    2. New York
    3. New Jersey
    4. Connecticut
    5. Rhode Island
    6. Maine
    7. Massachusetts
    8. DC
    9. Texas
    10. Maryland

    I think I'm forgetting some…

  6. Hmmm…


    That's it!? How pathetic. I better get to work on that.

    I have done it in Canada. Does that count!?

  7. Amber (Girl with the red hair) says

    Well I'm Canadian – so I've had sex in zero state, but two provinces!

    I'll have to work on that and have sex in all the Canadian provinces/territories!! Haha

  8. 1) Georgia
    2) California
    3) Nevada
    4) Washington
    5) New York
    6) Florida
    7) Virginia

  9. jenniferalaine says

    I think I'm 1t 6…

    1. Illinois
    2. Massachusetts
    3. Maryland
    4. New York
    5. Florida
    6. Virginia

  10. bonequinhoda bic says

    Ei I have a question…what do you guys call a person that is a natural from Bronx.
    This is no joke I really need the awnser to this questuion.Thank´s.

  11. You know, I dont have many states down…

    but I do have a couple different countries.

  12. nicoleantoinette says

    Dude. YES! I absolutely love that you did this. Mine are:

    New York, New Jersey, Florida, Nevada, Arizona, Illinois, Minnesota, and California.

  13. Let's see: CT, NY, PA, FL, MD, NJ, MA

    I think that's it! I haven't been to many states!

  14. Okay, must count- DC, Virginia, New Hampshire, Maine, Massachusetts, Connecticut, New York, New Jersey, South Carolina, North Carolina, Florida, Illinois, Iowa, Indiana, Ohio, Pennsylvania, California…

    17 isn't bad, I suppose!

    I have a few countries too! Canada, England, Scotland, Poland…but, also, the Polish-Slovak border!

  15. New York, Massachusetts, Rhode Island, Connecticut, Nevada, Minnesota, Washington D.C., New Jersey

    8? I think that's pretty good, all things considered. Ha.

  16. Hmmmm…. New York, Florida, CT, New Jersey, Georgia, Penn, California.. i think thats it!!

  17. oh wow our tally is only 3! We have many more counties though, that's gotta count for something

  18. Suburban Sweetheart says

    1. Washington, D.C.
    2. Ohio
    3. Nevada

    I am incredibly boring and not very well-traveled!

  19. i'm pretty sure i only have five states, california, arizona, ohio, pennslyvania and nevada.

  20. Bonequinhoda: We're called Bronxites.

  21. oooh good topic!

    my list is pretty lame:
    minnesota, wisconsin, arizona, illinois, nevada

    and mexico!

  22. Hmm ok. This is fun!
    1. New Jersey
    2. New York
    3. Massachusetts
    4. Connecticut
    5. Maine

    Yep I'm boring but like you I have the Tri State Area covered!

  23. I'm boring:

    1. New York
    2. New Jersey
    3. Pennsylvania

    But I lost my virginity in another state than where I live, so that's cool, right? LOL. I've only been with one guy, for less than a year, so I'm a little slow… Someday I'll have more states though.

  24. Oh, I forgot about Minnesota. There, too.

  25. michelle woo says

    Hilarious! Um, I guess I'll play. California, Arizona, Hawaii, Nevada. Haha I think EVERYONE has done it in Nevada. Hello Vegas!

  26. 1)Massachusetts
    2)New York
    3)New Jersey
    6)New Hampshire

    I can't remember if I have in Rhode Island. If so it was forgettable. hahahh 🙂

  27. This is hilarious because I actually made a list of all the places Mr. Bear and I did the deed in a few years back… the list has certainly grown now that we have been together for over 5.5 years! Here it goes: CT, RI, MA, VT, IN, OH, GA, TN, FL, NY, AL, KY, HI, St. Thomas, St. Maartin, Cancun, Cozumel, Jamaica, Belize, Cayman Islands, Bahamas, …. and there are a few others I just can't think of right now. 13 states is a lot but not that many considering we have yet to visit the west coast!


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